I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is
be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. I've learned that
no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back. I've
learned that it takes years to build up trust and only seconds to
destroy it. I've learned that it's not what you have in your life, but
who you have in your life that counts. I've learned that you can get by
on charm for about fifteen minutes, after that, you'd better know
something.
I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can
do, but to the best you can do. I've learned that it's not what happens
to people, it's what they do about it. I've learned that no matter how
thin you slice it, there are always two sides. I've learned that you
should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last
time you'll see them. I've learned that you can keep going long after
you think you can't.
I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when
it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences. I've learned that
there are people, who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show
it. I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be
angry but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel. I've learned that
true friendship continues to grow even over the longest distance same
goes for true love.
I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt
you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that. I've
learned that it isn't always enough to be forgive by others, sometimes
you have to learn to forgive yourself. I've learned that no matter how
bad your heart is broken, the world doesn't stop for your grief. I've
learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't
love each other and just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they
do.
I've learned that sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of
their actions. I've learned that two people can look at the exact same
thing and see something totally different. I've learned that no matter
the consequences, those who are honest with themselves get farther in
life. I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours
when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.
I've learned that writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional
pains. I've learned that the people you care most about in life are
taken from you too soon. I've learned that it's hard to determine where
to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings
and standing up for what you believe. I've learned to love and be
loved. I've learned.
P/S : Life can be very confusing with its toss and turns, yet it can mesmerize you in a way you never think of.
